Friday, March 7, 2014

Friday Favorites

The phrase, "It's the little things that matter" may be exhausted, but it's as true as ever. It's easy to take things for granted, but making a point to appreciate all the little moments that happen during each day and week can make a difference in your attitude. Here are 8 of my favorite moments from this past week:

1. Finding out I'm getting a . . . NEPHEW!

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I'm so excited! My sister and her husband will be amazing parents - and this little boy will learn all about how to respect and value women:)

2. Reconnecting with friends I haven't talked to for a while. I think Facebook is good and bad for friendships. It's great to be able to keep up on friends' lives through pictures and posts, but 'liking' their life events rather than having actual conversations about them is not a good habit to get into.

I've never thrown out a #TBT. . . but how about #TBFF (throwbackfridayfavorites)


3. Getting some great advice from my younger sister. I'm supposed to be the older, wiser one, but I'm not. I called her to talk about a "woe is me" situation, but she just gave me some blunt words of wisdom, and for that I am thankful.

One of my favorite pictures of us
4. Having my current favorite song come on the radio.

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Does Ingrid Michaelson have any bad songs? No. She is divine, and lately I can't get enough of her "Girls Chase Boys."  Lucky for me, it came on right when I needed something to crank up and screech sing along to.

5. Mixing up the workout routine. On nights I only have 30 minutes to run on a treadmill, I have a couple of go-to routines I usually turn to. But I recently saw a 15-minute workout in Fitness that looked fun, so I doubled it and went for it. It wasn't as intense as what I normally would have done, but it was hard! I really didn't expect it to be that hard, and it was fun to do something new!

                     Set the incline to 10.0
                     Time(min)                               Speed(mph)
                     0 to 3                                      3.0
                     3 to 4                                      4.0
                     4 to 5                                      5.0
                     5 to 6                                      6.0
                     6 to 7                                      3.0
                     Minutes 7 to 15: Repeat the sequence in           
                     minutes 3 to 7 twice more.

6. The pure happiness and feeling of peace I get while lying in bed each night snuggled up to my husband and our furry little angels:)

          
        I love knowing that no matter what life throws at us, we are in it together.

7. Snagging the last bag of frozen fruit that's on sale at Target! Smooooooothies!!!

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8. Seeing the snow start to melt from gradually warmer weather.

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Have a good weekend, and 
take a moment to appreciate the small things:)

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

A glimpse into the life of . . .

            CARLA KELLY
I am very lucky to have such smart and talented women in my life to look up to. Today's glimpse is the perfect example of the happiness that lies within doing what you love. Carla  owes her success as an author to more than just her passion for writing, though. Her remarkable work ethic and love for learning have also helped her get to where she is today - her wit and positive attitude haven't hurt either.

I met Carla and her husband, Martin, many years ago as a small, bumbling child, and grew up going to church with them until they moved to Utah when I was in college. Not a fan of history at the time (OK, I'm still working on it), I was always amazed by her fascination and love for it - and just life in general. You will never have a dull conversation with her, and you will always come away wiser. Read on.


Current profession: Novelist


What types of books do you write? I write historical fiction, with romantic overtones. Although probably best known for my Regency Romances, I also write stories set in the American West in the 19th and early 20th century and the 18th century.

First job ever: I had a little Christmas job working in a gift store in Beeville, Texas. This was during high school. 


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First “grown up” job: This would be some years later, as I married and graduated from BYU, then stayed home to have children. My first grown up job was as a ranger/historian in the National Park Service at Fort Laramie National Historic Site. My park service work remains my favorite job, even more than writing.


Dream job: Exactly what I have done – working in the park service and writing.


How did you venture into writing? Writing has always interested me. My first “novel” was a three-sentence thing called “The Old Mill,” which I wrote when I was six. It only had those three sentences, but by golly, there was a plot. I wrote a lot in high school, working for our school newspaper, and then short stories later, which lengthened into novels.


How old were you when you published your first book? Donald I Fine Inc. published it in 1984. Do the math. I was born in 1947.


How many books to date? 30 novels, probably an equal number of short stories, a couple of edited histories and one written history of Fort Buford, in NW North Dakota (I call these my footnote stuff).


What influences your stories and characters?  History does. My interests there have long been the U.S. Indian Wars and the Royal Navy during the Napoleonic Wars, and my novels reflect that. I take my ideas from known, and not-so-known events, and the characters are shaped to that. My characters are also influenced greatly by people I know.


What is your favorite part about your job? In the park service, it was sharing our nation’s past with interested visitors. In fiction, it is creating these little worlds and making them ring true and factual, without being boring.


What is the most challenging part?  Refer to last sentence above. That’s difficult to do right.


What has been the biggest challenge in your career path?  Finding time to balance it all without neglecting too many important things (i.e. children).


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What advice do you have for someone interested in pursing a similar career path? If you want to be a novelist, don’t quit your day job. Everyone thinks writers make a lot of money, and some do. Most don’t. Persist in doing what you like, no matter what it is.


What do you wish you could tell your 25-year-old self?  Carla, you’re going to be a good writer someday if you persist. Enjoy the journey.



What are some of your favorite novels others have written?  My favorite novels are War and Peace (what a character study); A Town Like Alice (storytelling at its finest); The Lawrenceville Stories (life in a NJ prep school in 19th century. Love it.); and anything by Richard Woodman.    

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What are some of your favorite novels you have written? Of my books, probably My Loving Vigil Keeping, the story of a mine disaster in Utah in 1900. I have given so many talks on that book. Another guilty pleasure was Borrowed Light. Also The Double Cross, first in a series about a brand inspector in the royal colony of New Mexico in the 1780s. New Mexico was a dangerous place to live. Conflict makes a good book.
 
Who has been your biggest influence? Without a doubt, Jean Dugat, my high school English and journalism teacher. She was hard and exacting, but she taught a generation of us to write and think, no mean achievement.


How do you define success?  Doing what you enjoy and doing it well.
  
What hobbies? I like to read good crime fiction. I crochet afghans now and then, Holly, as you know! (She does a FABULOUS job and crocheted one for me and my sisters when we graduated high school - and then for my dad when he earned his doctorate!)

What is number one on your bucket list? I don’t have a bucket list. I’ve pretty much done what I wanted to do. One thing I love to do is sit in the hot springs at Hot Springs State Park in Thermopolis, Wyoming.


Favorite ice cream flavor – Ice cream is not a priority with me. (What!?) Maybe butter brickle. I do like New Mexican cuisine - probably more than I should.

Last words of advice to writers – Read extensively. Don’t waste your time with too many writers’ organizations or critique groups. Get in the habit of putting your butt in the chair and leaving it there for extended periods of time.   

Thank you, Carla!


Friday, February 28, 2014

Friday Favorites

We're nearing the end of Restaurant Week here in the Twin Cities. For us this meant a feast at Fogo on Tuesday. Deeeeelicious! It's nice to get a little taste (literally) of how that other half dines, but for those of us who can't always fork out a fortune for a forkful, here are just five of my many favorite local eateries that are much lighter on the wallet:


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The best part about this place: we are right across the street! It's a fantastic fast casual sit-down or take-out place with offerings from soups and salads to sandwiches and salmon, chicken or steak entrees. Even better? Its bakery has to-die-for desserts from cakes and cupcakes to mini-pies and cookies to its heavenly caramel pull-apart. 
My favorites: The Tuna Melt and the yum! Veggie Sandwich - and every dessert they make.


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Boasting the best Juicy Lucy creations, this is the only place you need to go for a burger. The fries and tots are great - but the fried green beans are the best you'll ever have. 
My favorites: The Jiffy Burger and the Bangkok Blucy.


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With a location also just down the street from us, yes, this is the place Obama mentioned in his State of the Union. Aside from dishing out some of the best food service wages, they also serve some of the best wood-fire pizzas you'll ever have - and a surprisingly delightful artichoke dip. There are so many amazing combinations to choose from, but I usually create a very simple one of my own: Margherita with two additional toppings - garlic and feta.


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No better diner breakfast exists. Always crowded, with genuine staff and heaping plates of endless cheesy, greasy-but-not-too greasy concoctions or pancakes and hot chocolate overflowing with whipped cream, there is nowhere else I'd rather be on a weekend morning. Jared is in love with their huevos rancheros, but I always go with the 'Lisa's.'

 
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 You are simply not allowed to go to a concert or event at the
Xcel center without stopping here first for amazing Italian food served cafeteria-style in a fun atmosphere surrounded by more Italian food via an Italian market and pastry/dessert display. The pizza is wonderful, but I always get the lasagna. I need to branch out, though, because it all looks too good to keep passing up. The gelato is by far my favorite part of the visit.

Indulge this weekend without any financial guilt! I might see you there:)

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

A day in the mind of an introvert

The bloggers I follow publish two posts a day, giving the reader more of a day-in-the-life account, describing the day’s activities, including all the dirty details on anything from meals to workouts to their pregnancy symptoms. 

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While I love reading these to learn random tips, recipes and advice, incorporating that style into this blog doesn’t really appeal to me right now (plus, it'd be pretty boring). 

However, I thought it would be fun (for me, at least) to do a  day-in-the-mind post recounting one of the many sets of thoughts running through the back of my mind at all times, starting with my extreme introverted - aka terrified-of-people - thoughts:

Waking up

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“Perfection would be to grab my laptop, plop on the couch and work from home all day communicating through email only.”

Reality check – Race out to the bus to sit way too close to too many strangers for 35 way-too-long minutes to join the bustling herds downtown.


Arriving downtown and power walking through the skyway to get to the office

“Why is that person looking at me like that…and that one…how crazy is my hair right now...why did that person smile at me…do I have to acknowledge him …not going to…OK, almost there, just keep looking straight ahead.”
An older lady slowly comes up behind me as I pass through a door and hold it just long enough for her to touch it.
‘Thank you so much,’ she exclaims as I give her a brief smile.
“Really? You couldn’t even muster ‘You’re welcome’ or ‘No problem?’ What is wrong with you?”

Arriving at my desk

“Yay! I have a long to-do list to get through, and it only requires me, Google and Excel. I can happily do this all day. Besides, I just made small talk in the break room for five minutes while filling my water bottle, so I need a recharge.”

Meeting

“Just be cool. You know these people now….see, this is going great…OK, your turn to talk….OK, rushed but good….your boss is making eye contact with you…look back…look back…Now stop -  you’re creeping her out. Hey, this is actually kind of fun, and these people are smart. Pay attention!”

Passing a co-worker on the way to the restroom

“Smile or greeting? Smile or greeting? Smile or greeting? Too late. She just said ‘Hi’ and ‘How are you?’ Good answer….nice banter…OK, good save - now move along before you embarrass yourself.”
*HUman*
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Lunch at my favorite spot in the skyway

 “Remember to speak up when you order. Yes, your voice is annoying, but if you say it loud the first time, no one has to hear it grow shriller as you repeat it three times. Now I have to wait with all of these other people? Am I supposed to make more small talk because we like the same deli? Those guys over there are. OK…a short comment about the cookies here…good enough. Now leave me alone, lady. That’s my order being called – saved!”

After lunch
A meeting ends and turns into a casual non-work related conversation, and I for some reason start talking a mile a minute, enjoying the discussion and opportunity to get to know my co-workers on a more personal level.


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"OK...I'm talking too much...I feel hot...am I the only one in here who's hot? Am I sweating? Crap, I'm definitely sweating. Can they tell? We've been in here an extra 15 minutes. Conversation. Must. Stop. Now."


The rest of the afternoon = alone time with my computer = recharge.

Waiting for the bus to go home

“Please don’t be too crowded, please don’t be too crowded….great. It’s late and over-crowded. Why do I take the bus again?” I then proceed to whip out my Kindle and look at nothing else until we reach my stop. “Free at last!”

After a quick workout with Jillian and a few minutes with my three loves - OK, four, since I eat too – I am headed to my shift at the gym.

“Please just don't let any unreasonably outraged members yell at me tonight."

I then spend the next couple of hours checking in the after-work rush with a huge smile on my face, the phone consistently attached to my ear and a pleasant tone in my voice. These people are here to work out, and they deserve to be greeted by someone who is excited they’re there, and I am honestly happy for them and want to help them stay motivated. That doesn’t mean I want to have lengthy conversations with them. 

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“What did he just say? I don’t understand…just laugh…yep, that usually works. Next one. This girl is funny….OK, TMI. TMI! I don’t know you!! Move along. Love this couple - they're so funny…good joke...it’s my turn to make a clever remark……I’ve got nothing…awkward silence...and move on. Oh, here comes the sales manager with his newest guest. Now I have to join in this overly friendly conversation without coming off as a phony. Did I really just laugh like that?”

When the masses die down I have a few minutes to talk about weekend plans with my co-workers. 

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“Oh, you spend every weekend out and about in cramped spaces surrounded by people in quantities too large for me to want to be in a stadium with? Nice. 
I have one social outing planned, and then I am looking forward to some quality quiet time at home. So I will really talk up that one dinner I’m going out to.”

As closing time approaches, I have some real conversations with a few members I’ve actually gotten to know before kicking them all out and driving home excited to go to bed, exhausted not because it’s late but because I just spent a lot of time with a lot of people. And I’m going to do it all again tomorrow. “Yay.”


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OK, is this a little exaggerated? Yes - but not as much as you're probably hoping it is (for my sake). What can I say? Send me up in front of a huge audience to give a speech or on a week-long trip with my closest girlfriends, and I have no problem. But send me to a house party or a mix-and-mingle networking event, and I can give you a long list of horrible things I'd much rather put myself through.

I love deep conversations with people I know well and interviewing people I don't know well to learn more about a new topic/event/theory/you-name-it, but at the end (or middle..or beginning) of the day, I prefer to be alone with my thoughts. And I am more than OK with that. I've tried to change this part of me, but I have realized the one thing I won't be is fake.
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Friday, February 21, 2014

Friday Favorites

Unless you've been living under a rock (or a snowbank, in which case I almost forgive you, given the state of most states right now), you know we are in the midst of the marvelous season of the Girl Scout cookie.


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As tempting (and enjoyable) as it may be to devour box after box, think of all the concoctions you could instead create using the cookies to intensify and draw out the flavor. There are heaps of recipes out there, and since I haven't actually tried any myself (since it requires you to actually mix or chop or bake or stir things successfully), today I am sharing some I would love to try - especially if you made them for me - based off of my three favorite cookies: Samoas, Tagalongs and Thin Mints.

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Thin Mint-Stuffed Brownies
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MMMM  - Happy experimenting this weekend!