Friday, March 14, 2014

Friday Favorites

Happy Friday! This week absolutely flew by. Maybe because we hit 50 degrees!?!? It's amazing what the weather will do to your attitude. On a completely different note, here are five random things I'm loving this week!

1. This mascara - Cover Girl Flamed Out Mascara in black. When it comes to lashes, the bigger, bolder and blacker, the better, I say, and this gives me exactly what I want - with just one coat!


2. Old Spice Wolfthorn deodorant. Old Spice is not just for your dad anymore - or men, for that matter. And I'm pretty sure the company knows it because this is just one of a few scents that smells a little too feminine to not be geared toward women. Plus, I just read this article that proves I'm not alone. Why buy women's "clinical" product or any of the other fluff they try to sell when I really just want something that actually works? The wonderful scent is just a bonus!


3. My crock pot! We received one as a wedding gift, and I used it for the second time in over three years this week. I know they're more of fall/winter thing, but I feel an obsession coming on. I made this four-ingredient barbecue chicken recipe and was unnecessarily and extremely proud of myself.

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4. I FINALLY got my hands on one of Ben & Jerry's new core flavors, and the wait was well worth it.


OK, I've maybe tried two now, with the other being the Karamel Sutra Core.

5. Season 3 of "Billy on the Street" began this week! What would I do without my husband and all the magnificent things he gets me addicted to?
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Have a great weekend!


Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Oh, woe is smartphone-less me


Please ignore the scary face - and yes, my cats are my
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I am one of maybe 50 people left in this country without a smartphone. I still use the phone I was so excited to get three and a half years ago because it had a sliding keyboard - a huge step up from my bright pink flip phone. 


When smartphones were first all the rage, I didn't really care or pay much attention. Now that they're the norm, I'm starting to feel a little out of touch, and until my husband's unlimited data runs out, my phone will remain hidden as much as possible in public places; you should see some of the looks I get when I have to haul it out - it's like I'm using the giant bag phone my parents kept in the Jeep my sisters and I all drove in high school. 
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Yeah, I guess I've always been pretty trendy with my phone usage.


Here are some disadvantages (D) and also some advantages (A) of this great tragedy of mine:

D: It's one of many reasons I feel like an 80-year-old. If I need to borrow a phone and I get handed a smartphone, I really have no idea what to do with it.


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D: I'm missing out on so many apps! Navigation apps, weather apps, music apps, fitness apps, health apps, shopping apps - I want you all!

A: I'm not addicted to or constantly looking at my phone.


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D: Technology-wise, I feel behind everyone else my age (you know, the impressive age group that's insanely tech savvy?) - and even 10-year-olds!


D: Trying to get to Facebook on my phone is a ridiculous process, but it's easier than getting to any other website, so there is no email, blog, Pinterest, Twitter or LinkedIn-checking on my phone. I only get on Facebook when I am so desperately bored while waiting for something, I don't mind the 10 minutes it takes just to see the first couple of lines on my home page.


A: I'm not addicted to or constantly looking at my phone.


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D: I do not have an Instagram account, and I am so jealous of everyone else's! I know you don't have to have a smartphone to use it, but it's just not the same when the pictures are not instant. I still use my little digital camera to take pictures and then go through the whole process of hooking it up to my computer, downloading all the pictures and finally sharing the pictures days or weeks after whatever it is that happened, happened. And just to rub in a little more salt, the pictures aren't even as good as the ones smartphones take.


D: No Skyping over the phone for me - such a shame since everyone probably wants to not only converse with me daily but look at me too.


A: I'm not addicted to or constantly looking at my phone.


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D: I can't use my phone as a boarding pass. No, I don't fly often, but when I do, it would be one small thing to make the process an easier and smoother one.


D: I definitely cannot stream music from my phone.


A: I'm not addicted to or constantly looking at my phone.


OK, so are you noticing a pattern here? Yes, the benefits outweigh the downsides, but besides the price difference, the huge disadvantage of being a smartphone owner is the power it holds over you. Seriously, people, look at yourselves (I'm sure you are right now, actually, using your mirror app to fix your hair before taking and posting your fifth selfie of the day). Everywhere I look, I only see the tops of people's heads - and it's not because I'm some five-foot-two giant. It's because you are all looking at your phones ALL.THE.TIME.


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On a date? Scrolling through your phone. Out to dinner with friends? You're all checking your phones instead of talking to the people you're actually sitting across from. At a movie? Sporting event? Wedding? At the cash register? Bar mitzvah? Family reunion? Church? Your kid's concert? Justin Timberlake's concert? Same thing. And this is coming from someone who avoids as much human interaction as I can get away with.


I'm sure what you're looking at is fascinating, and I know it's important to stay and feel connected, but at what cost? When I finally have a smartphone of my very own, I know I will be tempted to behave the exact same way. I totally get it, and I don't even have one. But what I've observed as an outsider to this trend that's not even much of a trend anymore is that life still happens outside of those screens, and you can miss out on a lot if you're not careful. Make the effort to spend a little less time on your phones and a little more time living your lives. I promise you won't regret it.



Friday, March 7, 2014

Friday Favorites

The phrase, "It's the little things that matter" may be exhausted, but it's as true as ever. It's easy to take things for granted, but making a point to appreciate all the little moments that happen during each day and week can make a difference in your attitude. Here are 8 of my favorite moments from this past week:

1. Finding out I'm getting a . . . NEPHEW!

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I'm so excited! My sister and her husband will be amazing parents - and this little boy will learn all about how to respect and value women:)

2. Reconnecting with friends I haven't talked to for a while. I think Facebook is good and bad for friendships. It's great to be able to keep up on friends' lives through pictures and posts, but 'liking' their life events rather than having actual conversations about them is not a good habit to get into.

I've never thrown out a #TBT. . . but how about #TBFF (throwbackfridayfavorites)


3. Getting some great advice from my younger sister. I'm supposed to be the older, wiser one, but I'm not. I called her to talk about a "woe is me" situation, but she just gave me some blunt words of wisdom, and for that I am thankful.

One of my favorite pictures of us
4. Having my current favorite song come on the radio.

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Does Ingrid Michaelson have any bad songs? No. She is divine, and lately I can't get enough of her "Girls Chase Boys."  Lucky for me, it came on right when I needed something to crank up and screech sing along to.

5. Mixing up the workout routine. On nights I only have 30 minutes to run on a treadmill, I have a couple of go-to routines I usually turn to. But I recently saw a 15-minute workout in Fitness that looked fun, so I doubled it and went for it. It wasn't as intense as what I normally would have done, but it was hard! I really didn't expect it to be that hard, and it was fun to do something new!

                     Set the incline to 10.0
                     Time(min)                               Speed(mph)
                     0 to 3                                      3.0
                     3 to 4                                      4.0
                     4 to 5                                      5.0
                     5 to 6                                      6.0
                     6 to 7                                      3.0
                     Minutes 7 to 15: Repeat the sequence in           
                     minutes 3 to 7 twice more.

6. The pure happiness and feeling of peace I get while lying in bed each night snuggled up to my husband and our furry little angels:)

          
        I love knowing that no matter what life throws at us, we are in it together.

7. Snagging the last bag of frozen fruit that's on sale at Target! Smooooooothies!!!

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8. Seeing the snow start to melt from gradually warmer weather.

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Have a good weekend, and 
take a moment to appreciate the small things:)

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

A glimpse into the life of . . .

            CARLA KELLY
I am very lucky to have such smart and talented women in my life to look up to. Today's glimpse is the perfect example of the happiness that lies within doing what you love. Carla  owes her success as an author to more than just her passion for writing, though. Her remarkable work ethic and love for learning have also helped her get to where she is today - her wit and positive attitude haven't hurt either.

I met Carla and her husband, Martin, many years ago as a small, bumbling child, and grew up going to church with them until they moved to Utah when I was in college. Not a fan of history at the time (OK, I'm still working on it), I was always amazed by her fascination and love for it - and just life in general. You will never have a dull conversation with her, and you will always come away wiser. Read on.


Current profession: Novelist


What types of books do you write? I write historical fiction, with romantic overtones. Although probably best known for my Regency Romances, I also write stories set in the American West in the 19th and early 20th century and the 18th century.

First job ever: I had a little Christmas job working in a gift store in Beeville, Texas. This was during high school. 


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First “grown up” job: This would be some years later, as I married and graduated from BYU, then stayed home to have children. My first grown up job was as a ranger/historian in the National Park Service at Fort Laramie National Historic Site. My park service work remains my favorite job, even more than writing.


Dream job: Exactly what I have done – working in the park service and writing.


How did you venture into writing? Writing has always interested me. My first “novel” was a three-sentence thing called “The Old Mill,” which I wrote when I was six. It only had those three sentences, but by golly, there was a plot. I wrote a lot in high school, working for our school newspaper, and then short stories later, which lengthened into novels.


How old were you when you published your first book? Donald I Fine Inc. published it in 1984. Do the math. I was born in 1947.


How many books to date? 30 novels, probably an equal number of short stories, a couple of edited histories and one written history of Fort Buford, in NW North Dakota (I call these my footnote stuff).


What influences your stories and characters?  History does. My interests there have long been the U.S. Indian Wars and the Royal Navy during the Napoleonic Wars, and my novels reflect that. I take my ideas from known, and not-so-known events, and the characters are shaped to that. My characters are also influenced greatly by people I know.


What is your favorite part about your job? In the park service, it was sharing our nation’s past with interested visitors. In fiction, it is creating these little worlds and making them ring true and factual, without being boring.


What is the most challenging part?  Refer to last sentence above. That’s difficult to do right.


What has been the biggest challenge in your career path?  Finding time to balance it all without neglecting too many important things (i.e. children).


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What advice do you have for someone interested in pursing a similar career path? If you want to be a novelist, don’t quit your day job. Everyone thinks writers make a lot of money, and some do. Most don’t. Persist in doing what you like, no matter what it is.


What do you wish you could tell your 25-year-old self?  Carla, you’re going to be a good writer someday if you persist. Enjoy the journey.



What are some of your favorite novels others have written?  My favorite novels are War and Peace (what a character study); A Town Like Alice (storytelling at its finest); The Lawrenceville Stories (life in a NJ prep school in 19th century. Love it.); and anything by Richard Woodman.    

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What are some of your favorite novels you have written? Of my books, probably My Loving Vigil Keeping, the story of a mine disaster in Utah in 1900. I have given so many talks on that book. Another guilty pleasure was Borrowed Light. Also The Double Cross, first in a series about a brand inspector in the royal colony of New Mexico in the 1780s. New Mexico was a dangerous place to live. Conflict makes a good book.
 
Who has been your biggest influence? Without a doubt, Jean Dugat, my high school English and journalism teacher. She was hard and exacting, but she taught a generation of us to write and think, no mean achievement.


How do you define success?  Doing what you enjoy and doing it well.
  
What hobbies? I like to read good crime fiction. I crochet afghans now and then, Holly, as you know! (She does a FABULOUS job and crocheted one for me and my sisters when we graduated high school - and then for my dad when he earned his doctorate!)

What is number one on your bucket list? I don’t have a bucket list. I’ve pretty much done what I wanted to do. One thing I love to do is sit in the hot springs at Hot Springs State Park in Thermopolis, Wyoming.


Favorite ice cream flavor – Ice cream is not a priority with me. (What!?) Maybe butter brickle. I do like New Mexican cuisine - probably more than I should.

Last words of advice to writers – Read extensively. Don’t waste your time with too many writers’ organizations or critique groups. Get in the habit of putting your butt in the chair and leaving it there for extended periods of time.   

Thank you, Carla!